WHAT I THINK ABOUT THE STUPID STUFF GOING ON IN THE WORLD
Two days ago I wrote a story about Chandra and Thomas Zarembinski. The Zarembinskis are adoptive parents who refuse to give a child back to his father after the mother deceived the father and gave the child to them. I am so very disgusted by this story that I decided to write about it again.
Since the original post, the father of the child has gone on Good Morning America. The Zarembinki’s response was to send a letter stating that they don’t understand why he chose to make this private situation public. Of all the nerve! These people have refused to give him his child FOR OVER A YEAR and they are wondering why he has FINALLY gone to the media about it?
I know that there is injustice in the world, but it is so hard for me to think about this father yearning for his little girl and having people like this refuse to let him SEE her and hold her! I just can’t believe it! I can’t believe that a willing father, a good man, has so little say in the life of his own daughter. I can’t believe that he filed for custody BEFORE these people and yet they WILL NOT GIVE HIS DAUGHTER to him! I can’t beleive that a woman could hold the father of her child in so little regard that she would deceive him and abscond with his child and give it to someone else and the courts wouldn’t IMMEDIATELY turn the child back over to him once it was determined that he was duped! What kind of world do we live in where this happens to a father? What kind of place is Utah to do this to a dad? Aren’t fathers people too?
This wasn’t some deadbeat guy who didn’t want his child. This was a man who loved his daughter from the moment he heard she was coming. He may not have been married to the mother, but once he found out that his child was coming he did the right things. Is this his reward? I understand that the Zarembinskis wanted a child, but this isn’t the way to do it. If this little girl isn’t returned, I hope she grows up, finds out what they did to her father and establishes contact with him. I hope she questions them about morality and just plain old right and wrong and asks them how they could morally be willing to keep a little baby from her father. I don’t hope that she hates the Zarembinskis, but I do hope, if they keep her, that their attempts don’t stop this little girl from getting to know her real father once she has the chance to do so on her own.
The Zarembinskis are the worse kind of people in my opinion. In my opinion, they are so selfish and so consumed with their own desire to have a child that they would do anything, including spit on the rights of the birth father, to keep this little girl that does not belong to them. There is no doubt that they will say that too much time has passed and they should keep the child, but it is their own fault. I just hope and pray that there is a judge who is smart enough to see that a father shouldn’t lose his child just because the mother deceived him. Where is that judge? It certainly wasn’t the judge in Utah. I am going to write more updates about this story. I don’t ever want people to forget about John Wyatt’s little girl, baby Emma.
Mr. & Mrs. Zarembinski you are doing the wrong thing! One day Emma will know what you have done.